倩尋《新詩》＆別觴自撰語錄 @ 離珂觴詠文集

《倩尋》

無論杳逝風霜，悲黯消凝，風蝕歷經，歲月流遺，枯槁荒蕪了心……

那篤摯不渝的年華是愛深眸注視的曾經。

就算荏苒光陰，斗轉星移，荼蘼花盡，末世歸寂，傾慕鐫刻了妳……

那情誓不悔的夢華將醒欲訴無淚的孤離。

哪怕日久月深，冷月殘雲，空山餘裊，寥悵孤寂，萬籟沉醉了曲……

那夜闌不語的流華是妳陌上塵囂的聲跡。

此生飄殘悴影，忳鬱魂慼，盞燭芯枯，天涯望垠，朝夕雋永了情……

那思念無盡的顏華是我漫漫倩盼的追尋。

【別觴抒文集】：倩尋……文：別觴

《別觴自撰語錄》

Whether... how can I make you

understand...

I know that one day...I will lose...

是否…要如何才能讓妳明白…

我知道有一天…我終會失去…

The person who can give you a good life all your life,

With someone who wants to work hard all his life to make you have a good life.

What kind of love would you pay for?

一輩子都能給妳過上的好日子的人，跟一輩子都想努力讓妳過上好日子的人。

妳會為哪種人的愛買單？

If you want to live with the eyes of others in your life, you must not avoid lying to others, and the relationship between people will certainly not lack the illusion of a secular facade.

Then otherwise a person's reality is the side of the illusion, and the illusion of a person is also the real side.

人生若要活在經受別人的眼光，你就必定不能避免與人說謊，人與人的關係也就必定不會缺少世俗立面的假象。

於是一個人的真實是假象的一面，

一個人的假象卻也是真實的一面。

Being deceived by others is really not a thing, because without the deceiver, people always like to live in self-deception.

被人給騙了實在不算一回事，因為沒有了騙子，人也總喜歡活在自我欺騙裡。

Remember regrets, you are always required to do this for the next relationship, never for the previous one.

記取遺憾，始終是為了下一段感情才需要妳這麼做，從來都不是為了上一個。

Being reluctant to give up on someone who is not worth it is like what a person who has no capital but likes to spend extravagantly does. Your investment will always lose money.

對不值得的人戀戀不捨，就像一個沒有本錢卻喜歡揮霍無度的人在做的事。你的投資永遠賠本。

When you are tired of the current situation you are in, think of it as a special test. When you are low, it also tests when you have the wisdom to take a step back. In any case, rest is for strength, open-mindedness requires courage, and moving forward. You need your continuity more.

當妳對於身處的現況感到疲憊時，不妨把它想成是一種特別的考驗，低落的同時也考驗妳何時俱備退一步的智慧，無論如何，人是前進的動物，歇息是為了力氣，豁達則需要勇氣。

From the perspective of God, all things are beautiful and they are their own children, so that there is no human body in heaven that will suffer from the suffering of the people, and there is no negation there.

從上帝視角來看，萬物一切皆美，都是自己的孩子，以至於如此，天堂不會有人體會民間疾苦，那裡不存在否定。

When you feel happy,

You will be grateful to remember that there are still many unfortunate people in the world in addition to your own luck.

But when you're at a low ebb,

You don't become happy just because there are many people in the world who are happy.

If the greatest happiness of an unfortunate person is the misfortune of others, what is the difference between you being relieved because you know that you are not the one who suffered the worst?

當你感覺到快樂的時侯，

你會感念在自己的幸運之餘想起世界上仍有許多不幸的人。

但當你身處在低潮的時侯，

你不會因為世界上還有許多人過快樂，你就會因此變得快樂。

如果一個不幸的人最大的幸福就是他人的不幸，這樣就跟你因為知道自己不是遭遇最慘的人而感到釋懷，有什麼不同？

Companion is more important than understanding. Maybe you don't need me to know you, but you will definitely need me to stand with you., This is why I have been here.

陪伴更重要於了解，或許妳不需要我了解妳，但妳會需要我站在妳這裡，這就是我在這裡的原因。

To survive in a crazy world, you have to be crazier than this world.

想要在瘋狂的世界生存，唯有比這個世界更瘋狂才行。

If God is absolutely perfect, he cannot be omnipotent, and if God is omniscient and omnipotent, he cannot be absolutely perfect. The same is true of God for such people.

上帝如果絕對至善就不可能全能，上帝要是全知全能就不可能絕對至善。神之於如此人也亦然。

If a person can write poems, it is because he wants to record everything he wants to take pictures in his heart with in-depth text.

一個人如果會去寫詩，是因為他想用深度文字的方式記錄自己內心留影的一切罷了。

If no one understands your strength, who will sympathize with your weak?

如果你的堅強沒人理解，你的軟弱又有誰會同情？

Love, always makes people laugh like a fool when it is sweet, and cry like a fool when it is bitter.

愛情，總讓人甜的時候笑的像個傻瓜，苦的時候也讓人哭的像個傻瓜。

Life can be born in goodness because of dignity and bravery, if you feel that you were born in misfortune.

「生命」可以因為尊嚴而勇敢而使自己仍誕生在美好之中，如果妳覺得自己生於不幸。

Courage is to control your fear, not when you face something you are not afraid of. Being brave is when you already know what you are afraid of, you will still strive for faith.

勇氣，是控制你恐懼心理，而不是要你面對本身並不畏懼的東西。勇敢，是當你已知道你害怕的事物，你仍為了你的信仰奮力向前。

A man who can't change is not worthy of love, because he will not even do the most basic "change principle" for you. How deeply you love someone is not about how good that person can become for you, but how bad he can become for you without fear of others' eyes.

一個變不了壞的男人不值得被愛，因為他會連僅僅最起碼的「改變原則」都不願意為妳做到。愛一個人有多深不是看那個人可以為了妳變得多好，而是看他可以為了妳不畏懼他人的眼光變得有多壞。

Whether people's feelings for you are real, you have to see clearly through your own decline. However, the truest face of a person is when suffering.

人對你的感情是否真實，你必須要透過自身的衰敗才會清晰可見。然而一個人最真實的面貌，就是在承受痛苦的時候。

If I haven't seen a person's pain, it means I haven't seen his heart.

如果我不曾見過一個人的痛苦，那就表示我不曾經過他的心。

Some people work hard throughout their lives, but they like to constantly be trapped in other people’s values, deny yourself for others’ values, and sell yourself for others’ values, but it is so sad that you have to use other people’s values. Sure, you have a way to define your happiness…

有人終其一生努力進取，卻喜歡不斷的困在別人的價值觀裡載浮載沉，為別人的價值觀否定自己，為別人的價值觀出賣你原本希望的自己，卻又可悲的不得不用別人價值觀裡的肯定，你才有辦法為你的快樂定義…

True freedom is not having to live by the expectations of others, but to affirm your own worth with the approval of others. In order to give meaning to your actions, you must first give meaning to the world.

真正的自由就是不必活在他人的期望，用他人的認可來肯定自己的價值。你要為你的行為賦予意義，你就必須先要給予這個世界意義。

Don't ask me why I cannibalize, I can't answer you why.

This is how it happened.

I can't restrain myself, and I don't know why I should find a reason to restrain myself.

不要問我為何食人，我回答不了你為什麼。

事情就是這麼發生了。

我無法遏制自己，更不知道為何該找理由遏制。

The biggest lie in this world is that you think this world is miserable, but it is not. It is full of “laughter and joking.”

這個世界上最大的謊言，就是你以為這個世界很悲慘，但其實不是，它是充滿“笑聲與戲謔的”。

I can give you lots of red and white corpses,

Accompanied by the loneliness that long saplings stand alone.

Who is weeping endlessly,